no more messenger!!! Adictzie? Nevoie?

Va avea 3 nuantze postul asta: asha, ca sa complaca mai multe dintre ideeile mele si ale tale despre chestiutza asta care ne manaca zilele:MESSENGER

Am inceput sa scriu ca un soi de manifest impotriva lenii voastre de a lasa comentarii pe blog.

M-AM SATURAT SA VB PE MESS DESPRE CE AM SCRIS PE BLOG! Am mai zis intr-un post ca exista sectoru ala numit “comments”, care de altfel e ft usor de folosit si acolo potzi sa-mi scri ca esti de acord sau nu cu postu, ca ti-o placut sau nu…sau cine stie ce alte completari, pe care nu ca nu le scri de lene, ca doara pe mess mi le potzi scrie… si cum pe mess poti sa iti dai cu parerea, poti invata sa o faci si pe blog, mai ales ceea ce e legat de blog.

Si ca sa stiti de ce nu va mai raspund pe mess – de aia: exista sectiunea comments. Cei ce o folosesc stiu cum funtioneaza, stiu ca si acolo raspund cam imediat si e mult mai eficienta treaba. De ce sa te mai chinui sa faci conversatoe pe mess, sa ma saluti, sa te invarti in juru cozii, sa mai vb si despre alte cele…mai ales cand ai ceva sa-mi zici legat de blog. Acu inteleg ca te plictisesti, ca vrei sa faci conversatie – da fi sigur ca daca ma plictisesc si eu, dupa ce-ti raspund pe blog, mai uit si in lista de mess si cu siguranta ne punem pe chatuit.  Altfel…ma pui si pe mine in situatii aiurea, in timp ce poate fac altceva, sa-ti raspund, sa nu-mi ignor cititorii…bla bla… asa ca primu rol al acestui post e unul explicativ – si indrumator – nu va mai raspund pe mess!

De ce nu renuntz de tot la mess?

Isn’t that obvious? pt ca e instant messaging – adica functzioneaza rapid, ajuta mult, e mai alive ca restul lumii virtuale, are chestiutza aia numita status care te face sa dai click si sa ajungi aici:D

De ce ash vrea prin urmare sa renuntz? Adica e clar ca nu renuntz cu toate ca ash avea motivele mele, care seamana cu ale tale.

Mai nou am tot auzit oameni viteji, care s-au vindecat de boala instant messagingului.

Mda, si eu zic ca e o adictie, atata timp cat nu te ajuta, ci doar il folosesti ca sa pierzi vremea. Deci eu nu o consider o adictie (am argumentele mai sus), deci nu ash vrea sa ma vindec de o boala pe care nu o am Dar ash vrea sa fiu mai imuna la tentaiile exercitate – sa nu ma uit cine intra, cine iese, cine ce mass imi lasa. Dar am devenit mai selectiva, si oricum nu am vreme sa ma intind la povesti cu totzi. Si repet, despre blog, PE BLOG!

Si ash mai vrea sa renuntz pt ca imi mananca foarte mult din timp.

Dar imi place sa port conversatii, cu oameni cat mai diferiti, despre chestii cat mai diferite. Imi place ideea de mess pt consiliere. Prietenii stiu de ce Si nu consider ca asha nu am vreme sa ma intalnesc cu cei ce trebuie, sau ca e mai bien sa ne intalnim sa discutam. De acord, doar ca pt aia chiar ca trebuie mai mult timp – cu messu poti combina multe cativitati – eu cel putzin mi-am dezvoltat simtzul pt multitasking – si ma binedispun cei cu care vb in timp ce imi fac sa zicem si treaba.

Asha ca, atata timp cat e cu masura si folosit constructiv, e in regula si daca sunteti available pe mess.

Astept completari - Tu de ce ai renuntza la mess?

Sau de ce nu ai renuntza?

In sectziunea comments pls!

Ce mai e nou si vechi prin Cluj?

Careva sa zica daca a fost Dub fx in Cluj si am fost si eu prezenta, m-am repatriat. Mai mult sau mai putin. Da’ revin si atunci poate va fi repatriere totala… nu tin neaparat – prefer sa intrec granitele rromanes…

Oare de ce nu tin sa revin? In afara de ca vreau sa plec ca asa e natura mea…
Ink nu-mi gasesc locul aici. Si acum voi fi acuzata din nou ca sunt muult prea mofturoasa si increzuta. Si iara s-o schimbat o groaza de chestii in Cluju asta. Ma uimeste mereu – si asta e totusi bine, nu ma plictiseste.
Au aparut semafoare peste tot si treceri de pietoni acolo unde poate era nevoie sau poate nu. Nu zic ca o trecere de pietoni e in plus, sau ca ma supar ca pierd si mai mult timp din viata asteptand ca semaforu de pe 21 decembrie, de acolo din statia Somesului sa se faca verde… Dar clar e din nou o chestie care ia din timpu unor oameni care au ce face cu timpul lor, pentru a le da poate mai mult timp pe planeta asta prostiilor care nu stiu sa traverseze. La fel cum multe chestii imbecile, facute cu cap de altfel sunt menite sa rapeasca din timpul unora doar pt a le da prostilor mai mult timp… da ei oare chiar au nevoie de timp?
O alta chestie, adica e ca sunt doi in unu aici – ratucu, ca sa cuprind asa sub o umbrela: nu exista orare in statii, sau macar ceva care sa ajute omu strain sa stie daca sta intr-o statie buna, adica ajunge la destinatia pe care o vrea sau nu – un desfasurator de ala, facut frumos in excel sau ce o stii ei, unu de ala care trebe doar printat ca pe site exista. Si felicitari ca exist ape site pdfuri si minuni cu ultimele plecari, cu statii… da e greu tare sa le si pui in statii? Adica o zic eu, care am vazut ca asha e “moda” in tari civilizate, pe unde am fost in calitate de strain de loc. Si unde daca nu erau hartiutzele alea nu prea ma descurcam eu. Ia puneti-va in pielea strainilor care vin in Cj, ptca iubesc Clujul, asa haotic cum ii. Nu le este lor greu sa gaseasca o statie fara sa se uite pe sus? Nu se intreaba si ei de unde pot lua bilete – ca nu stiu shmenu cu tre sa fie pe partea cealalta daca nu e acolo. Nu se intreaba cat de frecvent circula un bus, sau cand e ultimu? Va zic eu ca se intreaba!!!
Si de ce anume mi-e dor…ca erau acolo 2 chestii – de butoanele alea… adica sa apesi tu butonu daca vrei sa cobori la urmatoarea statie, sau sa deschizi usha cand vrei sa urci. Nush. Asha m-am obisnuit. Da sa zicem ca e ok si asa, se deschid toate ushile, in toate statiile…
Acu lucruri care ma uimesc placut in Cluj
Sunt muuulte seconduri, da nu de alea naspa, ci seconduri de alea mai first hand asha. Hai sa-I fac reclama ca s-asa n-are decat cea mai buna reclama posibila. Tabita isi face reclama prin marfa faina pe care o aduce. Punct. De altfel toata lumea stie de Tabita. Nici nu zici ca merg in second sa-mi caut ceva, ci zici merg in Tabita, mai ales ca sunt destule ca sa acopere majoritatea zonelor.
Si ce-I cel mai tare?? Si m-o uimit de mai demult asa si am promis ca scriu, da nu cred ca am apucat: Haine Anglia (hai ca asta nu mai uimeste pe nimeni) LA KILOGRAM!! Adica, hainele alea de acolo din centru, unde era alt outlet, langa tabita ala de pe memo mai exact, nu au prêt pee le. Si intrebi si zice ca costa atata cat trage la cantar. Kilu e 100 ron (da si aia mai variaza) si in fct de gramaj ai si pretzu. La naiba. S-or gandit exact la mine. Sau la altii care calatoresc mult si is stresati ca bagaju e prea greu la avion. Acum stim exact cat merita bagaju ala de 20 d kile de haine. Acum stim exact ca cu cat ii mai greu, cu atat costa mai mult.  mie imi place la nebunie ideea. Stiu ca e un maieut mic s pot sa-l strecor, da are un anume gramaj care m-o costat atata si mai costa si in bagaj daca e in plus. Genial!
Si care-I treaba buna cu secondurile astea? In afara de ca da pe dinafara dulapu oricarui roman? Oricarei shopaholice?… yoy da asta intr-un alt post, ca e de actualitate mare treaba. In Cluj lumea se imbraca bine, cu gust. Si da, e si malurile de vina, da is si astea de vina: aduc marfa faina, care pun creativitatea la incercare, sau macar daca vad ca toti se straduiesc si arata ca din reviste, ia sa vad si eu ce sa mai iau pe mine. Asa ca e placut pe strazile Clujului… nu doar un aer boem pe strazi ci si un aer de fashion all over.

A…o disparut Kenvelo ala de vis a vis de galeriile Ferdinand, se face ceva outlet parca.
Se sparg strazi intr-o veselie, deci mai mult de ocolit cu taxiurile.
E ceva campionat de gatit in aer liber la Polus.
E si Twestivalu la Havana.
S-o dat si Nestea gratis cu furtunu din recipiente carate in spatele promoterilor.

Roger? ma duc sa le incerc pe toate

Find me on polyvore.com

purple_love_for_turquoise_meets blue

moxsie during the day, moxsie during the night

Yellow leopard Moxsie by socialbutt3rfly featuring Chinese Laundry shoes

moxsie during the day, mosxie during the night by socialbutt3rfly featuring Converse shoes

purple love for turquoise meets blue ribbons by socialbutt3rfly featuring Arden B

purple meets yellow – and they form a checkerboard rainbow by socialbutt3rfly featuring Vans shoes

Tutu here, Tutu there, everywhere by socialbutt3rfly featuring Dorothy Perkins

dare to be mean and playfull by socialbutt3rfly featuring Forever21

Mando Diao – Gloria

so this is what i heard while shopping in a mall….
after some days i remembered, looked 4 it. it has a video… and it has lyrics…

interesting …i never liked characterizing myself, but others do… even in songs. this is more contemporary than the song from Umberto Tozzi so it kinda portrayts me
so in an extreme way, it kind of fits. is this Name something special and universally true?

and btw… these guys are cute, not only cause they sing a song about me )

first 2 rows taken ad literam don’t fit…i do need the sun ahead and some help from above, but otherwise i can handle anything alone
and about heartattacks… just watch it… i really don’t intend that but…

cat… i am a cat…

and damn sure i am noones slave:)

Lyrics

Well now, she don’t need to see the sun ahead
Don’t need that help from god above
If you’re losing her don’t be sad
Cause she will offer you heart attacks

She’s tired of problems that you caused her mind
Tired of all those lies in your freak show
Tired of being alone at night
Being the lowest cat on earth

So
Gloria steps out from the prison
Gloria’s no longer the wasted disco girl you’ve been dreaming about
Gloria alone now forever Gloria away in the air now
Gloria she’s no longer your slave

It’s time for you to see yourself
All the misery you brought up
Gloria’s one day ahead
Watching you from the heaven’s gate

din BLOGOSFERA in ECOSFERA si inapoi

Blogurile nu sunt pentru oamenii ocupati.

O stiam si eu.
Dar imi place sa-mi ocup timpul si I need to write things down…anywhere. Si in ultimul timp mi-am asternut gandurile in mod cat se poate de traditional, cu stiloul in mana pe foi de hartie.
Nu degeaba am avut o perioada atat de eco friendly.
Cam de cand am revenit pe plaiurile mioritice in afara de infruntat realitatea cu o pofta mai mare ca de obicei, am ales sa o infrunt si altfel.
Cu mai putina tehnologie. Ok, n-am avut atata tarie de caracter sa scot cablul de internet… insa imprejurarile au tinut cu mine. Minunatul camin s-a decis sa personalizeze conexiunea la internet..si pt ca suntem in Romania reglementarile dureaza…

Acasa am reusit sa ma despart de laptop pt televizor, sau pt plimbari cu rolele. Un bravos pt mine.

Revenita in Cluj m-am hotarat sa umblu pe jos, de vreo 3 saptamani am si reusit, am urcat doar d 3 ori in troleu. Recunosc ca e mult mai bine pe jos, si avand noroc cu putina scoala care e mai departe, restul activitatilor se intampla aproape.

Clujul respira, iar eu respir aer de Cluj. Mai aproape, mai adanc atrasa de acest orash, de oamenii, cladiri – intru in contact cu el. E incredibil cate se pot intampla in mod real, departe de lumea virtuala. OK. probabil ca am exagerat si eu cu srfatul excesiv pe net – dar fiind departe, era unica modalitate de a fi conectata la lume.

Din cauza acestei departari, m-am decis ca la intoarcere sa gust viata mai cu pofta. E nevoie doar de un telefon – la care sa raspunzi, sau sa suni persoanele de care tzi-era dor.

Sau ajunge sa iesi afara.

Un oras atat de mare si totusi plin de prieteni, de cunoscuti atat de multi – cred ca zilele astea propozitia mea preferata a fost: te-ai intors! Super!

M-am decis sa ma bucur de aceasta propozitie si cum mai mereu in spatele ei se afla si intrebarea cum a fost – discutia poate continua pe strada, la un suc, bere, cafea, in parc, oriunde si cu oricine! M-am intalnit si cu o prietena draga care are acelasi scop, ea facand acest lucru inainte sa plece departe, pentru un timp destul de indelungat, sa refaca legaturile existente, sa aloce timp celorlalti.

I am glad I am back!

PRAGA- PRAHA- PRAG- PRAGUE ( and the adventure before seeing the beauty)

the most wonderful city I’ve ever seen.

it got high in my top cities…like it just jumped on the first place, so London and New York’s Manhattan come after it!!!

so much beauty concentrated on every hill top, along any street, in every building, on every wall, in every brick of a wall… so much history kept on that surface, and even if everything is old, is still new, clean, in refreshed colors. It’s perfection – felt in every detail – and there are details everywhere.

It ‘ s like every architect, every building maker had a sense of beauty, and they tried to place everything in a special way, that complete the whole image…

for me it were only 3 and a half wonderful days, a very funny and cute traveling mate, a nice host, hurting feet and eyes washed with beauty – if i am allowed to express like that.

so I am in love with the city. the only thing is that f*(^& complicated language… and the lack of information signs in English. they really should do something for the tourists that don’t know Romanian or Hungarian or don’t have imagination by trying to guess what words can mean…

everything started with an adventure. actually nothing was so rigorously planed even if the thought of going there existed for at least 3 months ago. i got there hitchhiking:)) never thought i will do smt like that all by myself, but “booking” somebody on the internet didn’t seem such a bad idea, and a 2 hours way couldn’t be that bad. i actually found someone from Romania, Cluj more exactly who studies here and was going home thru Prague. Lucky me. We got there he left me where i had to meet my friend , the address said by the gps was the correct one.

but where was I Sunday evening at 8 pm? on a huge street. a big building, no signs. i am looking at the building, hoping it was the state opera, but it was the train station, one of them, the bigger one. ( i can’t say which one:)) hl.n. …smt:))

ok…going to the information – the lady explained me in English that i had to walk not even 5 minutes, and go that way – and she pointed a direction. ok…fine. got out of the building somehow, and got the direction i thought she showed me. Wrong direction!! Darkness, rain, I was under some bridges, i saw only an older alcoholic guy… got spoookier and spookier when i saw on a house that i was in prague 3 not prague 1…

there where not many people on the street. i asked whom i could, everybody pointed directions with their finger but no one really knew where the opera was… my friends roaming wasn’t working, my phone was dying… but still she called me from some public phones, but couldn’t tell where i was, how to reach her…

finally i get on a street that drove me to a huge nice thing, to a place full of tourist, to a big yellow building – that i supposed it was the opera. but it wasn’t. i finally found the huge maps of the city, but the sign of u are here was missing on both of them… fuck fuck fuck!!!

I asked 2 guys. One of them was playing at the opera, so… he knew where it was, but couldn’t explain – but they proposed to drive me with their car there, cause it was easier, and close enough. ok… the proposal scared me… i would usually NEVER say yes… but after 1 hour of running in every direction and not knowing where i was i accepted. he said i should tell everybody that the guys from the Chech republic are nice. so i am saying it officially, cause they drove me to my friend, and i am very thankful to them!

Then, I am thankful to Brano, our host from the couchsurfing.com program, that by the way u should try it! the program is a very smart thing for traveling with no sleeping expenses, with no money for hotels, motels, or whateva…and u get to know interesting people that might show u the city, might reveal u the places that must be seen – insider secretes, u get to know the culture of it thru a person that is living it…

and the rest is beauty – and history…and thx God it’s kept in more than 800 pictures:)

enjoy – AND VISIT PRAGUE!!!!

And pictures can’t reveal the hole beauty of it, not even the half of it…and it can’t give u the feeling u get walking on those streets, or hills…
P.S.: important words that must be learned: pivo cerny (or cerna??) – black beer – the best we ever tasted!

german people have fun:)

but WHERE were the many pretty skaty shoes???

no names and girls in boots and best cases nikes…:(( sad feet view

but, who said that u can’t dance on dnb without skateshoes?

hopefully no one… cause he wouldn’t be right.

deci  un crowd ft colorat: and this means toate felurile d oameni  cu toate felurile d stiluri. de la sexy skate girls, la emo chicks, geeks, machos, hip hoperi… hmmm..oare ce las afara? varste d toate felurile, but many kids…  si totzi astia au insumat un nr mai mare de 500:)

fain a? 2 stageuri – dnb and raggae = 2 incaperi full

un singur nume mare: Blame, si atata lume?

partyu asta o fost un exemplu bun ca lumea dak vrea, stie sa se distreze si stie si unde sa se distreze. si ca reclama e cam degeaba. nu tu flyere, nu tu afishe care sa impanzeasca orashu si sa faca eventu cunoscut, doar un crowd cu pofta de chef , care stie k in cube club se pot distra sambata seara. faina idee ai?

un singur headliner, intro si outro facut de dj locali … notting special for the special crowd from cluj…ai?:) noi suntem prea mofturosi.

lor le-a ajuns muzica buna sa faca concurs de cine isi arunca picioarele mai sus.

incendiar. s-o dansat d p la 12 ( numa atunci o inceput sa vina lumea) pana dimineatza..p la 6-7… si dansat…cum am zis, mad dnb, cu picioarele in suuuuuus!:) it was funny.

si muzica?? absolut great. for my taste and the crowds se pare. liquid dnb, like shlagare puse una dupa alta de blame, da mixate incat sa te faca sa nu te opresti: high contrast la greu + his own songs… s-a transpirat la greu. peretii din hol  sunt imbracatzi in cduri care erau totze “ude”

visualuri neinteresante, numele djilor si cateva sigle cu labelurile lu blame…si intoarse p toate partiile toata seara.

diferente imense intre partyurile d aici si cele d acas… nici o diferentza in ceea ce tzine de nivelu de distractie cand este la cote mari si la noi, da diferentza in ceea ce consta gradul de repetabilitate al acestuia…la noi tre sa fie ditai eventu, cu nume mari, multe si variate, visualuri superbe si variate, afishe cu sutele ca sa potzi makr spera ca sa vina lumea sa se distreze.

aici… e nevoie doar de loc si muzica buna…ca lumea se aduna… si petrece:) we should learn smt from this…

une mai pui ca cu  o seara inainte blame pusese si in leipzig, care e la o ora distanta, ceea ce dak s-ar fi intamplat in cj vs oradea sa zicem..ar fi compromis ambele partyuri…

in leipzig, orash mai mare, au fost mai putzin…in jur d 300 si muzica mult mai liquid…si totusi…

deci…crowdu face legea  ( crowd al unui orash de 250 d mii d loc – mai mic ca cluju…si cu o densitate a studentilor de… aprox 10 mii..nici de cum 100 d mii ca cluju…)

do the maths…

all in one: me very satisfied. de abia astept sa mai trec p acolo

How updated to coolness are U?

For those who know me

it’s easy to understand the next pictures and comments. I love cool, strange, trendy, original, creative, out of the “turma”, emo, glam, punk, goth, harajuku, accesoriesed looks. hmmm… a little bit too much, right? how should i agree with only one term, when there are so many styles, and parts of styles that i like?

and for sure combine.

I don’t know if u know this scene queens, or if you know what the term means. I heard about them this days, from my pretty up to date soulmate girlie:) she spanked me by telling me she knows them for quite a while. ok. i researched, cause they caught my attention. and yeah. There are a lot of blogs with many pics of them. I’ll put some explanations too, make it interactive, and u’ll learn smt new too:)

Updating is now beginning

sceen queen – http://www.urbandictionary.com (too many deffinitions, but u’ll have a clue after reading some of it + the site is great when interested in new COOL urban stuff )

and now the EXAMPLES of such incredibly sweet, trendy, cool amazing queens ( i like them, wtf???:P)

Audrey Kitching      http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=268309

(my fav because of her pink hair maybe?

i do like her friend more, her face is prettyer, but no pink hair… you both rule!!!)

Audrey

www.skelanimals.com  

She has her own site, a buzz site, with all kind of hot cool stuff, not really a fan of buzzez but u can check it out

www.buzznet.com . And what else is cool about her? her car:) 

Hanna Beth – http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendID=198521162

seems to be a good friend with Audrey:) so they look alike (miss ya sylvia!!! we could be a nice pair of “cluj scene queens” like this 2 girls, we used to try at the parties:)

and of course they have their kings.

Buzz says smt about Panic… Panic at the disco. yep the cute emos. audrey should have dated, or is still dating Brandon Urie – if u’re curiouse about the buzz, just research it…i don;t really care who’s dating who. allthough, i love such “matching” pairs…

For more infos, just google this names. and check images, cause there are so manny… i can’t upload all of them…

i really love this one. i wonder why… BLACK AND WHITE!!! checkerboard. plus pink hair.

yummy… so let’s rewind. what makes this girlies so espacially cool? at least in my eyes(, and some of you too:P)

ACCESOIRES!

you don’t have to have your own skelanimals brand, smiley girlie skulls, Smileyfaces, Hello Kitty of course + Betty BOOp, starz, hearts… common, u get the ideea

some fancy- funny, big eyeglasses are more than welcomed, in the club also:)) party lights might be disturbing…

patterns!! not only my obsession. checkerboards, starz, many little hearts, polka dots, animal prints… and so on. it depends on your imagination. and yes, you’re aloud to combinde them also.

am i forgetting smt? you already have the pictures, and your imagination. and if u have the courage, there are many nuances of pink that could look nice on your hair also. i went with purple again

happy google-ing and hopefully u’re ready to update to this kind of coolness.

i guess this is  a field where u can really copy fashion styles, u’ll never be the same anyway. and if u have more ideeas than what u see around u, make them happen!!! we’re young. life is already fuckin boring and sad, angry, stressed, why not add some color to it?

hints for google researches: Betsy johnson (designer)

Jac Vanek, jeffree Star, harajuku style, girls…